Dear Supposed to, Should Be and Maybe Not,
Bite me.
I guess in polite terms I’m saying: we’re over.
Women everywhere are breaking free from all of you now.
You found us right after college, chased us through our careers, into our relationships, and finally pinned us down after the fall.
You remember – the fall that we go through when we find ourselves down on our knees, devoid of self-esteem and confidence because life came up and kicked us in the ass? That’s when we began paying apt attention to your every word and every advice because we lost our innocence.
So here’s the 411 Dear Supposed to, Should Be and Maybe Not,
You’re dead to us now. Your words fall on deaf ears and we no longer understand the language of stupid.
We’ve taken a master’s degree in the language of freedom and it sounds something like this:
We are “supposed to” be doing what makes the wildfire in our hearts burn brighter.
“We should” only listen to the small voice of our dreams waiting patiently to be heard.
and…
“Maybe not” is what we’ll now say to situations life presents offering empty promises of security sure to drain the soul right from our bodies.
So don’t let the door hit you on your way out. @dailytransform
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Good bye.
Tamara Star believes happiness is not an end destination, but instead the ability to see the ordinary through eyes of wonder. She’s an international best selling author, life coach, and the creator of the original 40-day Personal Reboot program for women–a 6 week virtual deep dive into clearing the slate on what’s blocking you from living a life you love. Her first book, a quick and easy read: “How to Survive a Break Up and Come out Thriving,” is available on Amazon. Her co-authored book “Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life” sits on the International Best Sellers List. You can find more information on dailytransformations.com and follow her on FB or Twitter.
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